Raising children is not an easy job for anyone, and that includes celebrities. In an exclusive interview with People Magazine, actor and author, Courtney B. Vance talked about the journey of raising his 17-year-old twins with wife Angela Bassett.
“I always tell people that I go to work to rest and I come home to work,” Vance told the popular entertainment news outlet.
He continued, “I am running around this house, doing this and that. … That’s the way we are, we are busy, all of us. The four of us and our company manager and our executive assistant, we’re a machine that really everybody’s got to communicate, ‘Who’s got this person, who’s got that person?’ “
Vance addded “In order for it to work, we got to let people know. And when we’re off a little bit, we get back together.”
Vance and Bassett share daughter Bronwyn Golden Vance and son Slater Josiah Vance. After years of IVF treatments, the couple welcomed their fraternal twins on Jan. 27, 2006, via surrogate.
As you may recall, during an appearance on The Late Late Show with James Corden in 2021, the Oscar-winner explained how she and her husband have different approaches when it comes to discipline.
“He is usually pretty calm but he is consistent,” the Black Panther: Wakanda Forever star said of her husband. “For instance, right now he’s 2,500 miles or so away in Chicago, and he can still get them to hop to it.”
“Meanwhile,” the 65-year-old mother-of-two added, “I’m 25 feet away and I either have to guilt-trip them or pull things away or just leave the room, just throw my hands up and go to my own corner and try to think of some other way to get them to do what they know they need to do.”
The new author went on in his interview to discuss the fact that he and his wife will soon be empty nesters as their twins will be heading off to college soon.
“We could say that we’ve been getting ready for them to be gone. They were away this whole summer, and we were working.”
He continued, “We can say all we want to, but when it actually hits you when they’re out of the house — and it’s just us and our beloved Piper, our lab — it’s going to be emotional.”
Vance concluded by saying that, “It’s going to be a big one when they transition out and get into that next phase. … This transition has been done by many, many before us, so it’s just our turn.”
If you would like to read Vance’s latest project, his new book, “The Invisible Ache: Black Men Identifying Their Pain and Reclaiming Their Power” click here.
Photo Credit(s)/Featured Image: Angela Bassett Instagram; Courtney B. Vance Instagram; Bronwyn Golden Vance Instagram; Slater Josiah Vance Instagram